That’s the question that Hieu Tran’s movie Squared may attempt to answer.
This is one of the unique aspects of gay relationships. Gay male tops aren’t only attracted to gay male bottoms. Sometimes there is negotiation about who gets to the be the top and who get’s to be the bottom (or do you flip?). Sometime you come to a resolution; sometimes not. It will be interesting to see how Hieu Tran addresses this topic.