Lesbian Sex 101 with Columnist and Entrepreneur Jincey Lumpkin

Jincey Lumpkin is a sex positive columnist for The Huffington Post as well as founder and self-christened Chief Sexy Officer of Juicy Pink Box, a website for lesbians that touts an erotic series of lesbian sex videos. Jincey takes on the most frequently asked questions about lesbian sex in her December 2013 post:

Question: What exactly do you two do?
Answer: The ways we have sex are as varied as straight couples. I’d argue that the sex we have is actually better, because there’s not the looming issue of a hard-on and how the hard-on will be serviced. Women are also capable of multiple orgasms, so there is little to no recovery time. We have oral sex, anal sex, penetrative sex and everything in between.

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Question: Do you always use a strap-on?
Answer: No. Again, it depends on the couple, but for me, it’s a sort of “special occasion” thing. I also really like to receive anal sex, so I like to have a strap-on penetrate me there, because it feels nice. Some women or queer folks like to incorporate strap-on sex more regularly. Sometimes we role-play and take on a more masculine character, and, for other people, a masculine role feels generally more comfortable for them.

5) Question: If you like women, why would you have sex with a girl who looks like a boy? Why not just date a man?
Answer: Because men are men. As a lesbian, I’m attracted to the parts and mind of a woman. Men don’t have boobs (well, they do, but they are not developed). I have a very hard time connecting on an emotional level with men. I can have friends that are dudes, but falling in love was tough, because I just don’t relate to men in the same way. We don’t “click.” Also, even with more masculine looking men or queer folks, there is still a feeling of difference from the norm, and that feels right for many of us.

See the full list of questions and answers, complete with memes (NSWF)